Should I still go ahead and marry him?
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship for some time during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well that i had spent much on the sickness already.
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change. I said fine! he’s even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him through whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken.
I also asked him that my friend’s husband left her in the hospital when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay the bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and why would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend.
Help a confused sister.